If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.
Part of working on your inside is going out and meeting lots of people.
I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find.
Here are five great reasons to date multiple people -- at once: 1. So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them.
Kinda had other things occupying my time and head space. Don’t try to slide one in under the wire (or at least be smart about it) – So you’ve had a few good dates and things look promising. Brazenly notifying the other people you’re dating of your blossoming relationship doesn’t have the desired affect you think it does. Not only will you feel silly and be embarrassed if it ends, but you possibly might scare away the person you’re dating. When you do cut things off with the other people, don’t tell them you’ve met someone else - Nobody likes to feel like they didn’t measure up.
They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.
I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.
While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single.
Don’t burn a bridge – I understand that a lot of people prefer not to juggle multiple options.
Don’t tell them why, just say something suddenly came up. When you are with someone, you treat them or act like your date is the only one.