I'm just working right now so I have more free time than her.Lately, with finals coming up and school being crucial right now, I haven't seen her in almost 3 weeks.I've blogged about this myself because I do see it in my dating life a lot.It's a fine line and when you want to cross that line, it is very difficult to tell if the other person thinks the same way or not precisely because that line is blurred.And while I don’t trust college boys to teach any life lessons in platonic friendship, even science validates their claim that men will sleep with their friends.
But if you’re lucky, you can fall in love with your best friend. Deciding the future of a relationship is a weighing of costs, benefits, alternative options, expectations, and investments already made into a partnership (Rusbult, 1980), but such weighing should reflect an appreciation for the work that goes into maintaining a partnership. Relationships help people grow into who they know they need to be. Let’s lay out some factors that people often associate with romantic relationships but are just as important in friendships: Beyond the sexual component, which is generally a defining feature of romantic relationships and absent from most friendships—one reason “friends with benefits” are often a source of confusion—there are other aspects that can clarify whether two people are well-suited to be joined as romantic partners, not just as friends. Also, do they possess a quality I want to develop in myself and do I have a quality they admire and want to develop in themselves?Jealousy and possessiveness occur in all relationships- including friendships.I've been envious of new friends that supplant old friendships.