Most people think that introverts are shy and anti-social, and extroverts are outgoing and the life of the party.
While that can be true, it is way more complex than that.
We are often drawn to things that are unique and unlike anything else.
Even though it is a wonderful thing to be so special, it can be alienating and challenging.
have an exceptionally strong desire to contribute to the welfare of others, and find great personal fulfillment interacting with people, nurturing their personal development, guiding them to realize their human potential.
Although they are happy working at jobs (such as writing) that require solitude and close attention, Counselors do quite well with individuals or groups of people, provided that the personal interactions are not superficial, and that they find some quiet, private time every now and then to recharge their batteries.
They may venture so deeply into thought as to seem detached, and often actually are oblivious to the world around them.
Precise about their descriptions, INTPs will often correct others (or be sorely tempted to) if the shade of meaning is a bit off.
Not usually visible leaders, Counselors prefer to work intensely with those close to them, especially on a one-to-one basis, quietly exerting their influence behind the scenes.
Friends or colleagues who have known them for years may find sides emerging which come as a surprise.
Not that Counselors are flighty or scattered; they value their integrity a great deal, but they have mysterious, intricately woven personalities which sometimes puzzle even them.
There are many struggles that the INTJ female has to face, being that she is so very uncommon.
The female INTJ basically abolishes the idea of the gender stereotypes.