After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.
These are some of the most popular questions I receive from readers, both men and women.
For those of you out-of-the-know, the 2-day rule is the assumption that a person must wait at least two days after initial contact with someone they’re interested in before getting in touch with them.
This unwritten rule tries to mitigate a slippery slope – contacting someone you’re interested in too soon can come across as desperate, but taking too much time to contact them may seem like you’re not interested at all.
I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.
A match sees something or many things that they like about your profile and take the plunge to send you a few questions. And you even may start to feel as though you shouldn’t respond because too much time has passed and it somehow devalues the potential for a relationship.Probably the most import piece of advice for you to follow here. If you are talking to someone and he or she says that life is busy at the moment, remember that the next time they are slow to respond. I’ve had several instances where people have sent me an email asking for advice and before I was able to respond I receive another email from them saying something along the lines of, “False alarm!He ended up emailing me a few hours after I contact you!Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.