Unfortunately for you, the traits of a selfish person aren’t easy to notice, because they cover their darker side so well.
But as the relationship starts to grow, you’d start to feel emotionally weak around this person.
Selfish people are always lovable, nice and really sweet. For all you know, you may be in love with a selfish person right now, or perhaps you have a best friend who’s selfish.
And before you know it, they could suck the happiness out of you, and all you can do is watch helplessly.
[Read: 15 subtle signs of a controlling boyfriend] How to deal with selfish people If you’re traumatized by a selfish person in your own life, don’t hate yourself for it. No one really realizes that a partner or a friend is selfish at the beginning of the relationship.
Your guy is not a keeper, you didn’t blow it, and the fact that you’re in great pain over this “loss” drives me absolutely crazy. Frustration – Because this situation is so very common and it’s so hard for most women to distinguish their feelings for their boyfriend from his feelings for you. Good men don’t freak out if you’re seeing other men – especially if you’re not exclusive.
Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches?